tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9143359628205808125.post6169436907546825661..comments2023-05-03T04:35:54.723-04:00Comments on spiritual pedicures: what's wrong with this picture?Elissa Steinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02004788697977182083noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9143359628205808125.post-57275182785583987392010-03-24T21:04:51.121-04:002010-03-24T21:04:51.121-04:00I lived this story for 20 years.
Here is what I le...I lived this story for 20 years.<br />Here is what I learned: <br /><br />1) Jon can have his ski trip. So can you. It's not a competition.<br /><br />2) His happiness doesn't take anything from yours. Each is separate and generated from within - not dependent on the other person.<br /><br />3) You are allowed to be happy. You are allowed to ask for what you want and need. You are allowed to book a ski trip and, in all likelihood, the family will deal.<br /><br />4) You are not as indispensable as you think you--or they--think you are.<br /><br />5) the best gift you can give to your kids is to make them do things for themselves.<br /><br />I have so many other things to tell you... the thing is, you will discover all of this yourself. This is the path of mothering - you are so wise, so honest and so earnest. You will sort this thing out.<br /><br />It's just a path. Keep walking.<br />Oh, book a massage.Amy Oscarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02743245533115702571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9143359628205808125.post-76424496906984966372010-03-23T11:50:56.799-04:002010-03-23T11:50:56.799-04:00Hang in there, baby. Your sauna is coming.Hang in there, baby. Your sauna is coming.Zucchini Breathhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18064779292183692168noreply@blogger.com